If you or someone you know runs away and no one knows where you are, whatever the reasons for running away or disappearing, you will be reported as 'missing'. You will be 'missing' until you are found and you are thought to be safe. If you stay out later than you are supposed to, but your parents or carers know where you are, you will not be seen to be missing.
There can be many reasons why you or someone you know might feel that running away from home is the only solution to your problems. Some of these reasons might be:
By running away you could put yourself in a lot of danger. Sleeping rough is very dangerous for young people. Below are just some of the examples of difficulties that you might face:
Whatever the problem, there are many people that can help you, and it's never too later to try and sort out your situation. Getting help whilst you are still living at home is usually a better option than running away.
If you're thinking of running away or have already run away, speak to someone you trust to see if they can help. There are also websites (listed below) that can provide useful information.
If you feel you have to get out straightaway due to your own safety, for example someone with whom you are living is being violent or abusive towards you, you must get help immediately. If you are in such a situation, you can speak to a social worker by contacting:
Duty Team, Referral and Assessment Service
Children Social Care
Department of Education and Social Services
2nd Floor Town Hall Extension
Wandsworth High Street
Telephone: 020 8871 6622
Outside of normal office hours (after 5pm weekdays or on weekends): 020 8871 6000.
In an emergency contact the Police by calling 999.
Childline is the free confidential helpline for children and young people in the UK. You can call them on 0800 1111.
Shelter provides a free, national telephone advice line staffed by trained housing advisers. Ring 0808 800 4444 8am to 8pm on Monday to Friday, and 8am to 5pm on Saturday to Sunday.
Call National Domestic Violence Helpline on 0808 2000 24